Quick Lay Report

This year I’m almost exclusively focused on day game. The only night game is if I happen to be at a previously planned event like a business happy hour.

So anyhoo. A couple weeks ago I was at a local coffee shop catching up on some reading. A cute, artsy-looking blonde walks in and we make eye contact. She orders her coffee and I tell myself that if she sits near me it’s an IOI. (Lame, I know. It shouldn’t matter where she sits but that’s the state I was in that day.)

She sits down right next to me, catches my eye while doing so and smiles. It’s on. I notice she has an iPad, so I ask here what’s her favorite app. That gets it rolling, then we talk basketball because she’s going to the local NBA game that night. Somehow the topic of medical marijuana comes up and I tease her that she’s a stoner. Somewhere in there we talk music and it turns out we have similar tastes. Eventually she gets up to go to the game and I get her number.

Later that night I hear our team lost, so I sent her a text teasing her for jinxing them.

No answer for a day, then a note back asking what I’m up to. I reply with “Trying to stay warm in this brutal cold. Only partially succeeding.” and a suggestion we get dinner.

No answer for another day, then the following evening around 9:30 she texts asking if I need help staying warm.

I text “Maybe. What are you offering?”

She replies “My body.”

I reply: “Tempting”

Then she suggests coming over later and I say okay. At this point I thought it was 50/50 at best, but she actually did come over at around 1:30 am. I can smell she’s been drinking and probably doing weed too. She’s not totally blitzed, but definitely tipsy.

We make out for a couple minutes, then I suggest we go up to my bedroom. We go in and she undresses immediately. Wow. Hot body. We crawl in bed naked and go at it hard. She loves to be dominated and dirty talk. Even does anal with me, which she says is the first time. This goes on for a couple hours, then we crash. Next morning I walk her to her car.

While I assumed from the beginning that this was a one-night stand, during pillow talk she suggested getting together again and doing it without condoms (i.e after std tests) and even going out to pick up another girl for a three-way. Ergo I figure I can get at least a couple more lays out of her.

So two nights later I text her to suggest going out dancing, but she says she’s out of town for the weekend. I wait a few days and text something flirtatious (can’t remember what). No response. I try a total of three times over the course of a week and get nothing but radio silence.

Can’t say I really gamed this chick except for having the balls to open her and get her number. From that point forward it was pretty much her that led. I just stayed cool enough to not get in my own way.

And then when she was done, she was done. Oh well. Next!

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Quick Update

I participated in a my first porn shoot Sunday. It was kind of fun. I was the moneybags who paid the talent and also helped with production stuff. The highlight was probably painting latex onto a chick before she and her boyfriend had sex. That was also the lowlight. Latex stinks and it requires a lot of coats!

I haven’t seen the footage yet, but I saw a couple of stills that look decent. We have another shoot this Sunday, then I think they’re supposed to turn it into a releasable product. Fingers crossed that I don’t lose my shirt on this!

Working on my Strip Club Game

On a whim (and after a few drinks) I decided to hit a local strip club. I go ever now and then, generally avoiding weekend nights because they’re too crowded and the dancers are too focused on making money. 9pm on a Wednesday is dead, so it’s easy to be the center of attention.

One thing about strip clubs, it’s a good place to practice talking about sex and asking personal questions such as “when was the last time you were really in love?” The girls do all of the approaching, so no worries about that.

But instead of buying dances from them and letting them run their game on me, I get them to sit down and have a real conversation with me. I do occasionally give them money, but I frame it as more of pity thing, like “hey, you look like you’re having a slow night, so here’s a few bucks.” I also walk up to the stage and leave money for the girls, but don’t generally let them dance for me. I just leave the money there. Obviously, that can add up so it’s still a pretty expensive game. 🙂

That said, the money part is purely optional. I make good money and so like to help a working girl out. On a slow night like last night you can just sit at the bar (not by the stage) and grab girls as they come by.

I ended up getting numbers from two girls using as bait a “documentary website about sex I’m working on.” That’s been a good way to get girls interested. I’ve got several girls queued up to be interviewed and really need to get that part of this site in gear.

One of the girls told me she’s married and has an open relationship, and I think she might want to play around with me. She gave me her email address. As I was leaving she commented that “it’s so nice to meet someone interesting here for a change.” We’ll see how it works out.

(BTW this girl IMO was the hottest girl there and I had my eye on her all night. She was tied up with some old dude who kept giving her money, so it was 2-3 hours before we finally talked. I think I gave her maybe $3 one time when she was on stage.)

Funny side note: I got to chatting with one of the gals there and it turns out her mom works for me! After we figured out the connection I could totally see the family resemblance. She would’ve given me her number and done the interview too — she was clearly interested — but she was understandably a little nervous about me knowing her mom (who thinks she’s a cocktail waitress, not a dancer). It’s highly likely that we’ll meet again in an office outing situation. She pointed this out, saying she and her mom are BFFs and she used to go her mom’s old workplace frequently. This will be a fun test of my acting skills.

Afterwards I met a couple gals while waiting for a cab. One of them was clearly into me and I could’ve gotten her number, but I thought she was only so-so. She asked for (and got) a hug when I left. The interesting thing with that interaction was, I treated it as an experiment in building rapport with her cockblock friend too. A couple times I could tell her friend was a bit suspicious of me and wanted to drag her away, so each time I saw her body language change I engaged her in conversation and got her to laugh at something. By the end she was on my team. Yay me.

And now I’m working on a new project that I like to call Home Improvement Game. I just posted this ad on Craigslist the other day:

Subject:

Friends first. If we click, well…

I need a woman’s opinion. I’m about to do some serious remodeling work on my townhouse in [name of neighborhood redacted] and I need a woman’s eye.

I have a good income and can afford good stuff. But I’m kinda lazy when it comes to things like picking out paint, hardwood floors, furniture etc. My place has tons of potential and could use a woman’s touch. Wanna help me out?

I’m a really cool, smart, good looking guy. And I’m very efficient, which is why I did this instead of stumbling around furniture stores for hours.

Pic 4 pic.

I posted it both in strictly platonic and personals. So far I’ve gotten one reply from each section, meeting one of them tonight at Home Depot.

On Hookers

I like hookers. I’ve seen a few of them and generally had a great time. It’s not just the sex that I like, though they were uniformly good and hot. Rather, I also like the conversation and intimacy that emerges. All of them had a least some college education (and one even has a master’s in engineering) and they were generally very interesting conversationalists.I make anough money to where I can pay a premium — $300-400 per hour — so I don’t know what it’s like to go with a less expensive provider. In other words, your mileage may vary.

If you’re thinking about trying an escort or just want to know more about them, here are a few sites I recommend:

The Erotic Review – Spend the $20 and to get access to the reviews. You can learn exactly what sex acts a girl is willing to perform, how attractive she is in person, what she’s like in bed etc.

The Real Princess Diaries – Very well-written blog by a working escort in San Francisco. She obviously loves to fuck and can command a premium price for it. She also runs a site called My First Professional Sex.

Debauchette – She doesn’t post often, but presents the real-life perspective of an escort. Very smart and sensitive.

HappyEndingz – Confessions of a massage parlor girl. Not really my thing, or at least I’ve never tried it, but it’s fun to hear her perspective. I wonder how many handjobs she’s given in her life?!

Las Vegas Courtesan – she mostly posts sexy pictures of herself (she studied photography in college) but also occasionally writes about the escort industry in Vegas, where prostitution is still illegal even though it’s legal in the the rest of Nevada.